Where is the nursery and when can I visit?

My nursery is contained within a whole, small house in a busy part of Birmingham, UK. It is discreet and within easy reach of the big train stations and Birmingham airport by bus or taxi. Free street parking is also available. Sessions take place throughout the week and sometimes on weekends. We will arrange a time that suits us both.

How do I book?

Once you have read all the information on the website and think we may be a good fit, then I will ask you some basic questions about your needs and wishes. This will help me assess whether or not I can offer what you are looking for. If I decide not to take things further, please do not be disheartened, it just means that we are not a good fit. I am not obliged to give any further explanation and expect you to respect my decision. If we both agree to proceed, then we will agree a date and I will take a deposit from you.

I am very happy to answer questions and help you get the most out of your visit, but please read this information first and keep all interactions respectful.

How much does it cost and what are the terms?

In-person visits start from £480 for a 3 hour nursery session, or £590 for a 4 hour session. Longer visits (including overnight) are available to those whom I have either seen before or got to know remotely.

Online sessions are paid for in advance: £75 per 50 mins for a therapeutic session, or £125 per 50 mins for a remote mummy session (please see the ‘Online’ page for more information). To secure an in-person booking, I will take a 20% non-refundable deposit by bank transfer or Amazon gift voucher and the outstanding amount will be charged on the day. You can either pay by card or cash on the day (nothing ABDL related will show up on your bank statement). You are also welcome to pay in instalments in the lead up to your session. Once the deposit is received, your slot is secure. You may rearrange your slot up to one week in advance of the time without charge.

What can I expect on the day?

Visiting an ABDL nursery for the first time can be a daunting prospect and I will do my best to help you relax and enjoy your visit right from the off. We will generally have a phone call before your visit to go over the details. When you arrive at the nursery, you will have the opportunity to have a hot or cold drink and a chat, have a look around the nursery and get used to your environment. Then I will guide you through the experience in accordance with what you have told me about yourself and what you would like. If you would like to regress to a baby, then we will likely spend a lot of time having cuddles, bottle feeding, gentle play and relaxing in the cot. If you relate more to being a toddler or a young child, then our interaction will also involve active play. The nursery is equipped with lots of fun areas to explore. We also have the option to watch cartoons, eat tasty snacks in the highchair and have lots of cuddles. You decide in advance how much you would like to choose your own activities or be led by me. You can also decide whether you would like a stricter mummy, who will put you on the naughty step and reward you for being good. I want to make your experience as fun and relaxing as possible.

Can I wear and wet a nappy?

Yes, you are very welcome to wear a nappy and wet it. However, I do NOT permit messy nappies in my nursery. If you need to do a number two, Mummy can help you get to the toilet without breaking roleplay. Breaking this rule will lead to immediate termination of the session. I supply a range of fun nappies, as well as plain and medical ones for wetting. These are included in your session fee and I will do regular checks and changes.

What does Mummy Mary NOT offer?

My nursery is all about embracing the joy of being a Little, free from judgment, in a caring, fun and accepting setting. And I do not judge anyone for wanting something that I cannot provide. I do NOT offer any humiliation, messy nappy changes, severe punishment or sexual services, including breastfeeding or sexualised touching. If you do not adhere to my boundaries, I will terminate the session immediately and there will be no rebooking. You will not find any x-rated material in my nursery or in your interactions with me. If you feel unsure about a particular wish, then please reach out and ask me.

What if I get excited?

It is not a problem if you experience sexual arousal. However, this must not be followed by any sexual activity, including masturbation. If you breach this boundary, the session will terminate immediately and there will be no re-booking.

What about privacy?

I fully appreciate the importance of privacy and take this very seriously. I do not ask for ID unless you are a young person and I need to check your age. As I am a practicing psychotherapist, I adhere to strict rules around confidentiality. I will only share information with authorities in extreme cases (for example, if you tell me you are planning to physically harm someone or seriously hurt yourself). For full terms, please click the Privacy Policy link at the bottom of the page.